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Hi! πŸ™‚ I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask about this, but I don’t know where else to go… So… I think I have anxiety. Actually, I don’t think, I know… All the tell tale signs make it pretty clear, I’m really anxious, worried and scared all the time. πŸ˜› So I was wondering if anyone knows any ways to cope with anxiety, maybe? Any good tips to maybe feel more relaxed and more at ease would be really helpful. πŸ™‚ Thank you!

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  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    Even if you want you can tell me a story or a situation where you need help with which is causing anxiety. Whatever I don’t mind just make sure to tell me I wanna help you guys out. Thanks

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Do you have it? πŸ˜›

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    Well it’s really hard to say I would say like sorta I mean I get like panic attacks and I do get very anxious at time but I am pretty experienced with it and am happy to help others with cases the same or more serve than mine

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Oh, ok! I think I have it too…

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    Hi starlightdreamer! Yea its not the best is it lol. Would you like help with anything like dealing with it or tricks to help? Xxx

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    I think I have it because … I’m really shy and quiet, socially awkward, and I’m always tapping my fingers, biting the insides of my cheeks, glancing around… Just fidgeting. And I’m always worrying, about everything… But anyway, sure, do you have any tips? How do you calm and relax yourself?

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    Hiya!Β  Omg you are exactly like me I’m superrr shy always very quiet constantly fidgeting and always worrying and over thinking situations. Β  Yes I do have some tipsΒ  Firstly I think listing to calm and relaxing music I really feel like that makes me less anxious. Secondly…exercise I haven’t tried this but supposedly this helps. And thirdly just think it will all be okay, stay positive everything will be fine. Xxx

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi! Yay, it’s good to know I’m not the only one! πŸ™‚ Yeah, I love listening to music, it’s probably the one thing that calms me down. I don’t like exercising, haha. XD Yup, it’s always good to look on the bright side! πŸ™‚ Thank you!

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    HeyΒ  Yeah you are defiantly not the only one! YESSSSS!!!!! Listing to music it calms me down and relaxes me. Hahaha that’s okay not all people like excersize. Your welcome Xxx

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi, Good to know. πŸ™‚ Yeah! What music helps you the most? Do you?

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    Hi Well….I love pop,all the new stuff. But to be relaxed I think just really calm music or like sometimes (this may be just me) but I find listing to raindrops really light raindrops that helps. I do like exercise I love most sports. Xxx

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi! So songs like Havana and Shape of You and New Rules? Yeah, I love listening to calming sounds like that too! πŸ™‚ For me personally, Taylor Swift’s music always calms me down… Always… πŸ™‚ That’s great, I wish I did… XD

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    Hey Yes I love love love ed sheeran. But they are all my favourite songs… Raindrops just make you feel calm ha I don’t know why! Ha yeah well I don’t like all sports just some hah! Xxx

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi, Ed Sheeran is okay, I guess. πŸ™‚ Oh, cool! πŸ˜€ Haha, I know! Yeah, haha. XD

  • Posted by Butterfly_Girl

    HiyaΒ  Ha I love his songs but every one Is different!

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi! Yup, we all are!

  • Posted by LoveyDovey

    Hi there! The dreaded black cloud of anxiety, we all go through it some worse than other’s. I find some nice hot tea with lemon and honey while repeating this too shall pass helps, also on youtube gentlewhisperingasmr is AMAZING at making me feel relaxed. good luck on your journey to minimizing your anxiety! remember You ar not alone & this too shall pass!

  • Posted by crazychickskye

    i have an anxiety disorder and have panic attacks randomly the best thing is to think of something really random or weird. or just breath

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi both of you! It’s nice to know that I’m not the only one. πŸ™‚ Thank you!

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi both of you! It’s nice to know that I’m not the only one. πŸ™‚ Thank you!

  • Posted by Casual_Maggie

    i have it too, for me it’s somtimes when i have a lot going on and my mumΒ  is like “clean this” and “clean that” and i’m dong something important and then my brothers are just frustrating me. and sometimes (usually) its like, i feel like there is something i should be worrying sbout, but i dont know what it is and it’s just in the back of my mind most of the time. and it’s like im forgetting to worry about something, its like “you cant go to sleep until you’re done worrying” do you have that too?

    • Posted by StarlightDreamer

      @casual_maggie, yeahhh, that happens to me too! It’s like I’m exhausted and so ready to sleep, but I just can’t because of all the worries I have in me… That’s so annoying! I think it’s like that for me too, like there’s just so much going on it’s hard to keep up. XD

  • Posted by maddie1208

    Hey! Someone mentioned to exercise… I wasn’t that keen on doing exercise or any form of sport a few years ago, but it really does help and can be very fun! I joined the volleyball team, which isn’t a lot of physical work like running around, you could find what worked for you! Exercise isn’t just fitness testing or the beep test in P.E., or running 100kms, even just walking is exercise. It helps your brain to release endorphins, which are a chemical that make you happy and calm.

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    • Posted by StarlightDreamer

      @maddie1208, oh, thank you so much! I started doing martial arts a few months ago, and it’s honestly been really therapeutic in a weird way, it’s like pushing all of my anxieties out of me. XD

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