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Asked out! Should I say yes?

Ok so I got asked out by this guy and we’ve been liking each other for quite some time now and basically I don’t know if I should say yes or not. I know you would probably think I’m crazy but hear me out. So about a year ago I was in a relationship where it was not good and it ended badly I won’t go into to too much detail but anyway I don’t want to go through the pain again. I also don’t want it to be awkward but I may never be asked out by a guy for a long time. I am 23 and I just don’t know if I’m ready! Should I say yes?

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  • Posted by Gemmah@Libra

    New relationships are exciting, a little scary & full of possibility! It’s totally normal to feel a bit nervous before a potential first date.

    Being hurt in the past is tough, but if you let that hold you back in your future relationships, you may miss out on something amazing. The potential heartbreak if the relationship doesn’t work out is scary, but not taking a chance can be just as bad.

    You both like each other, & have so for a while, so I think spending some time together would be a great idea. Who knows where it may lead!

    If you want to just do something low key or take things so, that’s totally okay. Just follow your heart!

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