Boys, dates, kissing and everything in-between! Need some advice, ask the Libra Girls here.
Sorry long post ahead… Okay so I talk to this guy on Snapchat and he’s a total sweetheart and so kind and caring but Im scared. So a bit of a backstory to that; I’m 16, he’s 17 (but got his Ls late so he doesn’t have his Ps yet…. just for the imagination of you girls, he’s over 6ft tall, he’s solid, but like so many of those guys he’s a total sweetheart and a huge teddy bear) but we’re both in year 10 (he repeated like year 1 or something I dunno); we met through a mutual friend, like I actually met him before I started Snapchatting him, I just knew of him for a lot longer; he goes to a boarding school in a town about an hour from me, but he actually lives like 6-7 hours from where I live. (All very relevant info for the story) Right, back to the story: we’ve been talking for almost two months and it started as just friends but we started being flirty, and then it progressed to us talking about “being together” and dating, but we both said it wouldn’t work because of the distance, and he didn’t want to put me through the pain of a “long” distance relationship. Multiple times it has been mentioned that we will just have to wait until he can drive over regularly to date. I tried to be careful and not get attached because of the reputation he has for talking to a lot of girls so I knew I wasn’t special but I couldn’t help myself and he was calling me cute and baby and beautiful, and you girls would all know how hard it is to not fall for a guy when he calls you those names. But anyway, I went ahead and got attached like I seem to do. Even though we flirted we have became good friends, and he we have a silly friendship that’s for sure and that’s more important to me honestly. Lately however he’s hasn’t been replying as much/ often, and I don’t know what to make of it. We’re growing distant and I’m worried. I know it happens, and I don’t want to lose what we possibly could have but I’m more concerned about our friendship and I hope it doesn’t get lost. What should I do about it?
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