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Boys confuse me

So this guy and I have been casually seeing each other since April. He and I have tried dating in the past but nothing really stuck. So we went back to casual but we both had feelings. The past week he has been really clingy and last night he was saying that he wanted to be more than casual. I am currently in another city away from him so I haven’t seen him since mid this month. But he still asks me if he can sleep with other people and if that would hurt me, since we aren’t dating or officially a thing I said that we aren’t together so he is free to do what ever he wants. It sort of hurts that he still wants to sleep with other people even when he says that I’m his girl or what ever. Do I have a right to be hurt or am I just being sensitive and what should I do about this?

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  • Posted by jhart7979

    i think that yes it is okay to hurt, that just means that u still have feelings for him. But i think that u seriously have to sit down and talk with him and talk about both of ur feelings and then claim what u are weather ur friends or not or whether u too r the b something more. I have a feeling that with him being clingy and wanting to be more than friends, and then asking u if he can sleep with other girls is his way of trying to get u a bit jealous and then want to b more then friends with him its a bit of a tricky boy thing bring u up then put u down then u come running, don’t worry some guys do it and its not always a bad thing, but idk what he is like or how he acts soo yeh. But honestly just go with our feelings if u want to be more then friends then go for it there is no point in life waiting for something to happen, when u can go out and make it happen!!!

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    You definitely have a right to be hurt… If you don’t like it, you should tell him, you have a right to. I think if he’s doing that, he’s not dedicated to being with you, and he’s not worth your time.

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