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Boys just don’t stop ugh (PLEASE READ)

So ever since I started middle school I’ve been feeling like I’m just entertainment for the boys. I’m in 8th grade atm btw.  Like they’ll talk about gross guy stuff in front of me just to try and get a reaction. They rate all of the girls by looks and play smash or pass in front of me. I’m always the first they talk about.  Whenever I take my jacket off they all whistle and stuff. They’re always stomping on my feet or grabbing my wrist or stealing my stuff.  This one dude literally kicked my leg and told me that I liked it. People have always told me I was pretty and when I was younger I loved it but now it just makes me uncomfortable. The boys seem to think that just because I’m pretty they can harass me? The girls get mad at me for trying to talk about it because they say that they could kill for the attention. Help![/b]

  • Posted by Freya Taylor

    Ok honestly just call them out. If they don’t respect that talk to an adult. You shouldn’t have to feel like a walking talking play thing that they can tease. If they don’t stop just roll your eyes and walk away.

  • Posted by Emily N

    awww this is so sad, boys are such dicks like ugh most of them only want one thing but just ignore them and just call the out on it and stand up for yourself bc we dont need any of this crap

  • Posted by Sumsy

    They make fun of you, you make fun of them. It’s the girl code, boys get what boys do. All of the boys in my class just tease me because I wear glasses. When they do that I just say “what did you just say to me?” And then they reply. So I look them in the eye and say “I can kick you know, and I’m not afraid to.” They just giggle and run away with their idiotic “friends”. Boys stink. Literally.

  • Posted by Sarah Rose

    That must be so annoying to deal with!! I have been in a similar situation and the best thing that helped me was to ignore them and eventually they stop (because you don’t react as you said they just want a reaction). But if that doesn’t work maybe tell them to stop.

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