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break up ):

so guys, me and my best friend broke our relationship and this is very depressing for me coz we have been friends for a long time.
the problem is that we had to break this relation because of me, i messed up badly and i want to make it up to her, but she does not trust me anymore.
since i have moved to a different country, i don’t see her that often.
i miss her a lot and i don’t know what to do.
i have said sorry a million times but she does not bother.
now we don’t really talk anymore but i miss her sooo much and cant forget those memorise.
its like i have lost another half of me.
i really want to talk to someone about this.
can someone please help!!
thx for paying attention <3

  • Posted by Gemmah@Libra

    Hi Disha,

    I’m sorry you’re going through this! Best friend troubles can be really hard.

    When trust is broken in any relationship, it can be difficult to overcome & get back to the place you once were. But it’s definitely not impossible!

    The first step is realising you were wrong & apologising, this can be hard when your bestie won’t hear you out. We all make mistakes, it’s how we learn & grow. Perhaps your friend is still hurt & isn’t quite ready to hear what you have to say. Send her a message & explain that when she’s ready, you’d love the chance to explain & start the process of becoming friends again. As your the one in the wrong, it’s important you listen to her & take things at a pace she’s comfortable with.

    As hard as it can be to say goodbye to people we were once really close to, it can sometimes be for the best. In the end, you have to put yourself & your happiness first! Surround yourself with people who care about you & who will support you. Try talking to some of your friends about what you’re going through.

    I’m sure your best friend misses you as much as you miss her, so just give her time.

    Gem x

  • Posted by Disha Mitra

    thanks a lot Gem
    i will try to make it up to her!!

  • Posted by sammy

    I got this friend i am not gonna say her name but she is being really rude and I don’t want to break up with her!!!
    What do I do?

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