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crush advice

so there is this boy in my class and he likes someone else other than me and i just keep trying to get over him but i just cant. If anyone can help it would be very appreciated.

thank you


  • Posted by Gemmah@Libra

    Hi Sophie!

    Trying to get over a crush can be hard sometimes. I totally get it!

    My no. 1 tip is to distract yourself by doing all the things you love and enjoy. This will keep your mind occupied so you can focus on other things instead of your crush.

    My favourite way of keeping myself busy? Baking! It’s fun AND you’re left with something delicious to eat afterwards. 🙌🏼

    Anyone have any other advice for Sophie to get over a crush?

    Love Gem x

  • Posted by Rishal Chand

    Hi Shopie I have the same issue but my crush is in high school now and I tried getting over him but I can’t because I still feel like I like him more then before. But don’t worry I have a few tips for you that my BFF had suggested to me when I tried getting over my crush.

    No.1- If your crush is always hanging out in your current group of friends, try broadening your social horizons. Making new friends will distract you from your current misery, boost your confidence.
    No.2- Think deeply about your crush and find as many ugly characteristics as you can find. List it down on a piece of paper and read it repeatedly. When you see them around, do not look at the good. Remember everything you wrote and don’t lose focus.
    No.3- Avoid your crush on social media
    No.4- Have some solo time like spend time with friends or just alone doing stuff you love.
    No.5- Try and find someone else who has almost the same hobbies as you and doesn’t have a crush yet, if you start thinking about someone else it will help get over your current crush.

    I know that the second one will be a bit hard

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