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Friends and BF URGENT!!!

[b]Ok my best friend just got asked out by my crush, she said yes after asking me about 10 times whether I was okay with it and I said yes it was fine x Now I’m just wondering what do to stop feeling a little jealous when they hug and stuff like that.[/b]

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  • Posted by shi200128

    Being in a relationship is a two-way street, you can have feelings for him but if he does not feel that way towards you then there is nothing you can do. Did your friend know about your crush? and did she ever say she likes him before he asked her out? It is good that she asked you before she made any decision, and it was nice for you to put her happiness before yours. now you have to think to yourself- do you feel jealous because he asked her out and not you, or because you are jealous that now you have to share your best friend. Now I’m just wondering what do to stop feeling a little jealous when they hug and stuff like that.  Being in a relationship is a two-way street, you can have feelings for him but if he does not feel that way towards you then there is nothing you can do. Did your friend know about your crush? and did she ever say she likes him before he asked her out? It is good that she asked you before she made any decision, and it was nice for you to put her happiness before yours. now you have to think to yourself- do you feel jealous because he asked her out and not you, or because you are jealous that now you have to share your best friend? [b][i]Now I’m just wondering what do to stop feeling a little jealous when they hug and stuff like that.[/i][/b] There are a couple things you have to consider. how much were you crushing on this guy? is he worth ruining a friendship over? maybe give it some time and see if you are getting over it. If not? I suggest that to talk to them (your friend first) and explain that while you are happy for them you are also a little uncomfortable and maybe if they could turn it down until you get over it.  [i][b]’if you find it hard being around them when they hug and that maybe just don’t be around them that much'[/b][/i] You definitely should not run away from the situation, because that will not help anybody in the long run. you said she was your best friend, your absence from her life should not go unnoticed, and you don’t want to hurt her in the process. I hope this helps…

  • Posted by jhart7979

    Well it’s understandable that you might be a bit Jealous but in one way i guess you have to think about it is that he asked out your friend and not you so sorry but it doesn’t seem like he likes you back that might sound mean but that’s how i see it but i could be wrong! and if you find it hard being around them when they hug and that maybe just don’t be around them that much like still hang out with them but if you know there going to hug you could always say you got to go or somthign then come back maybe

  • Posted by jhart7979

    Well it’s understandable that you might be a bit Jealous but in one way i guess you have to think about it is that he asked out your friend and not you so sorry but it doesn’t seem like he likes you back that might sound mean but that’s how i see it but i could be wrong! and if you find it hard being around them when they hug and that maybe just don’t be around them that much like still hang out with them but if you know there going to hug you could always say you got to go or somthign then come back maybe

  • Posted by shi200128

    Being in a relationship is a two-way street, you can have feelings for him but if he does not feel that way towards you then there is nothing you can do. Did your friend know about your crush? and did she ever say she likes him before he asked her out? It is good that she asked you before she made any decision, and it was nice for you to put her happiness before yours. now you have to think to yourself- do you feel jealous because he asked her out and not you, or because you are jealous that now you have to share your best friend. Now I’m just wondering what do to stop feeling a little jealous when they hug and stuff like that.  Being in a relationship is a two-way street, you can have feelings for him but if he does not feel that way towards you then there is nothing you can do. Did your friend know about your crush? and did she ever say she likes him before he asked her out? It is good that she asked you before she made any decision, and it was nice for you to put her happiness before yours. now you have to think to yourself- do you feel jealous because he asked her out and not you, or because you are jealous that now you have to share your best friend? [b][i]Now I’m just wondering what do to stop feeling a little jealous when they hug and stuff like that.[/i][/b] There are a couple things you have to consider. how much were you crushing on this guy? is he worth ruining a friendship over? maybe give it some time and see if you are getting over it. If not? I suggest that to talk to them (your friend first) and explain that while you are happy for them you are also a little uncomfortable and maybe if they could turn it down until you get over it.  [i][b]’if you find it hard being around them when they hug and that maybe just don’t be around them that much'[/b][/i] You definitely should not run away from the situation, because that will not help anybody in the long run. you said she was your best friend, your absence from her life should not go unnoticed, and you don’t want to hurt her in the process. I hope this helps…

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