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He suddenly showed me some attention…

So I posted something a little while ago about a boy I used to be with.. to cut a long story short things didn’t work out but we talk we get so close to dating and then he stops talking. The day before yesterday I wasn’t the one actually asking the questions but I don’t know if this is another one of his games that he plays with my mind or if it is my mind playing games on me. I don’t know whether or not I do like him but I tell myself I am over him and then two days later he finds some sort of way to change my mind. I am so confused and don’t know what to do, should I try something with him again? Or should I stop anything before he “ditches” me again?

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  • Posted by lily9283

    Hey babe I’m 12 and I haven’t been in a relationship before but my sister has and this is some stuff I told her when she broke up with him: You can’t help who you like/love but if you don’t want to like him again or be with him again maybe think about the things he did to hurt you Or if you want to be with him again talk with him about why your relationship ended and ask if you can try again I really hope this helps! XOXO Lily??

  • Posted by Natalie360

    I have been in exactly the same situation and it just kept messing with my head and I just decided to stop talking to him. It was hard but one day I just realised I was over him

  • Posted by anongirl123

    thank you so much @lily9283 and @Natalie360 I’m still stuck but I will work it out thank you for your advice Lily and thank you Natalie for showing me I’m not the only one it really got me thinking about it when you said that you moved on and I think it is what I have to do 🙂 thank you so much both of yous xx

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