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recently, I’ve been talking with a boy from school and we liked each other so I told one of my friends i really liked him. When i told her about him she was unaware of who he was and had no idea who he was. She then found out who he was and started talking to him online. i didn’t know this was happening and was really confused when he started becoming really dry. And then one day at school she pulled me aside and said that the “rumor” about her going on a date with him was a lie and i was like huh because i didn’t know she knew him. Anyways then she told me they were friends and so i asked her if she liked him and she said no and even said she was talking to someone else. Then later on i asked him about it and he said they were going on and date and that they liked each other. I don’ really care if they want to talk and stuff but I’m upset that she lied to me multiple times even though i told her to just be honest and I’m not mad at him because he actually told the truth. Is there anything i can do because I don’t know what to do i just feel really upset and she doesn’t even care. please help

  • Posted by NovaMc

    I have been in a friendship situation similar (lying and going behind my back) before. I got very hurt and worked up over it, but i eventually got over it. Here is my opinion on your problem.
    Obviously she isn’t a very good friend. I suggest either you try and be friends again by talking it through with her in a conversation or just end the friendship. I know from exerience that it will be hard but she can’t keep doing that to you. Either you keep getting hurt by her and continue the friendship, or you can end the friendship. It will be a hard decision, but it won’t be a healthy relationship between you both if she lies and goes behind your back like that. What i would say to her but you dont have to: i would tell her how much it hurt me and that it wasn’t a very nice thing. I would say that i didn’t like her lying to me and going behind my back. Then i would add that because she did that then surely she doesn’t want this friendship anymore.

    Continuing the friendship or not is up to you. I really hope this helped you and GOOD LUCK!

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