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He’s 4 years older than me????? HELP

I like this guy and he is adorable his smile literally lights up the room and he is legit like a puppy he is so kind and the sweetest person I know but I don’t know if it’s okay for me to date him and I really want to, I know for a fact nothing sexual would happen but idk if it’s legal??? I am 15 and he is 19 i’ve read a lot but idk if I can trust the internet so I kinda want some opinions? He works next to my work, so I know he has a job (my friend works with him) we are sometimes working the same days so I go see him he’s so funny and kind, I know he would be a good person, he has finished school so he has graduated from high school but I’m not sure what he’s up to next. Please help would be great xx  p.s I live in Nsw Newcastle if someone could help with laws etc

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  • Posted by Millie Rose 556

    If I was you I would [b]go for it!! [i]You make him sound nice and everyone likes someone nice in their lives ????[/i][/b]

  • Posted by Hihowareu

    Thank you so much ????, I really really like him but I just wasn’t sure. He is the type of person everyone can get along well with and I’m not kidding when I say he is legit the most charming guy i’ve met. I was talking to my friend about the age gap and she said she would honestly be surprised if I dated anyone my age (I have a thing for guys a few years older cus their maturity levels are a bit better and normally less drama) so she didn’t expect anything less. Thank you so much I’m gonna see when he works next I’m might go for it!!

  • Posted by Hihowareu

    P.s i’ve Never really been one to care for age (as long as it’s legal as I am still a minor), as long as we click well and can understand each other then age is something I don’t really pay attention to

  • Posted by yeeeet666

    Damn i’m talking to an 18 yo and he’s great, 15 here aswell.  Also from newcastle lol i wonder if we know eachother anyways, I think the laws are pretty much it’s legal just as long as nothing cheeki is goin on but tbh it’s not like cops r gonna come kncking on ur door. I feel u on how u like older guys, boys our age r just so wack. I never talk about this dude cos i reckon I’d get heaps of shiet on it, i feel like everyone just sticks to theirc age group lol . anywayssss hope youse work out just fine.  hope this helped <3

  • Posted by Hihowareu

    Bro not like the police are gonna see everything 😉 that helped so much ty??  maybe know each other tho ay idk lol, fr tho boys our age don’t know how to act mature??? Idk but older guys tend to be more appealing cos of their maturity level idek ty for all your help tho I’m gonna go for it I think <3

  • Posted by Daryvafder

    Technically yes it’s illegal and if reported he could be put up on charges, is it really worth it? And why is a guy who can drink alcohol go out to nightclubs etc hanging around with a child? Yeah he might be a great guy but i think you should definitely wait til you are older.

  • Posted by Millie Rose 556

    If I was you I would [b]go for it!! [i]You make him sound nice and everyone likes someone nice in their lives ????[/i][/b]

  • Posted by Hihowareu

    Thank you so much ????, I really really like him but I just wasn’t sure. He is the type of person everyone can get along well with and I’m not kidding when I say he is legit the most charming guy i’ve met. I was talking to my friend about the age gap and she said she would honestly be surprised if I dated anyone my age (I have a thing for guys a few years older cus their maturity levels are a bit better and normally less drama) so she didn’t expect anything less. Thank you so much I’m gonna see when he works next I’m might go for it!!

  • Posted by Hihowareu

    P.s i’ve Never really been one to care for age (as long as it’s legal as I am still a minor), as long as we click well and can understand each other then age is something I don’t really pay attention to

  • Posted by yeeeet666

    Damn i’m talking to an 18 yo and he’s great, 15 here aswell.  Also from newcastle lol i wonder if we know eachother anyways, I think the laws are pretty much it’s legal just as long as nothing cheeki is goin on but tbh it’s not like cops r gonna come kncking on ur door. I feel u on how u like older guys, boys our age r just so wack. I never talk about this dude cos i reckon I’d get heaps of shiet on it, i feel like everyone just sticks to theirc age group lol . anywayssss hope youse work out just fine.  hope this helped <3

  • Posted by Hihowareu

    Bro not like the police are gonna see everything 😉 that helped so much ty??  maybe know each other tho ay idk lol, fr tho boys our age don’t know how to act mature??? Idk but older guys tend to be more appealing cos of their maturity level idek ty for all your help tho I’m gonna go for it I think <3

  • Posted by Daryvafder

    Technically yes it’s illegal and if reported he could be put up on charges, is it really worth it? And why is a guy who can drink alcohol go out to nightclubs etc hanging around with a child? Yeah he might be a great guy but i think you should definitely wait til you are older.

  • Posted by bananagirl

    girl same. all the guys my age look like they’re 8 years old. i would probably just wait until i’m a bit older.

  • Posted by Maddi Freer

    aww honesty same but im year 8 and this guy was year 10 and this was a while back but I didn’t know what to do but now when I look back I wish I went for it we need to take risks we only live once right and I would live life to the fullest so I would go for it and its not like the police would see it and have you ever noticed a lot of parents are different ages my friends parents are 6 years apart so I think it wouldn’t be a problem and I live pretty close to you and I these days the police are more focused on the other things not small things like this so go for it gurl!!

  • Posted by RainyDays13

    If you think about it now it seems like Big deal but in the long run it won’t be and plus everyone even horrible people deserve some one nice in there life

  • Posted by Shania Gale

    Depends how old you are darl, if you’re over 18 then it should be alright, personally i absolutely hate the fact that you need to be a certain age to date (2 years apart) to some degree. It all just really depends on how you feel bout him. x

  • Posted by mynx10

    This is probably a bit late but I relate to this question and think my view would be useful for anyone in the position.
    I turn 19 in a few months and back when I was 15 I liked an 18 year old. Back then it took me a while to accept how I was feeling but eventually I just let it happen thinking I just had to let my feelings take their course. I ended up liking him for about a year and a half (a year of that time being while he was in another city). We become friends who would talk every now and then. I was so hopeful that he felt or would feel the same way but he didn’t. At the time I was kind of fine with it and eventually moved on telling myself that if anything is going to happen, it wouldn’t happen until I was 18. Now being 18, I look back and think about how I would feel if a 15 year old liked me and it makes me feel a little weird. I now know that he would’ve felt slightly uncomfortable. An age gap anytime before you turn 18 or so is kinda looked down upon and seen as weird. So I’d say maybe just become good friends but don’t try and push for anything romantic at this stage. I’d suggest just developing a solid friendship and try to move on. If anything happens when you’re slightly older then Yay! but for now I think just become friends and see if you’re still friends in a couple years and how you’re feeling then. Definitely wouldn’t recommend letting your feelings get too strong at this stage though. You also don’t know how he would feel about someone 4 years younger liking him and if he finds out you like him, it could potentially push him away for you.

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