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I need to talk (love)

So, this may seem obvious, but I have a problem with crushes So, the problem is that when all of my friends are like “Oh, you love him, you’d be so cute together.” and I’m like “Ew.” I really mean it. But soon after I usually develop a crush on them. And I hear my new crush go “Ew” at me and I just feel sad, but I don’t stop loving them for literally YEARS. Advice?

  • Posted by jhart7979

    hey look, my friends, do the same thing with me and boys at school, I don’t really have much advice for u but, I think that when u do get a crush on a boy think about the person u have a crush on like I mean find out weather or not he is a nice guy, like if he is what u thought he was and then go from there and if u still like him after u found out the facts about him. Ask him out maybe and if he says yes then great if not then maybe u will change ur mind but if he does say no then don’t take it to heart there are soooo many other guys out there and not just the one remember that. And that’s all I can say hope that this helped ?????

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    Hi, I don’t know really, but you could maybe stop saying “Ew”? If you know you might have a crush on that person down the road, you could stop saying that, but instead just tell them something like “Not right now” or something. Also, about the crushes you have now, seeing as how they act, they’re not worth your time. You should find someone who likes you back, and go from there. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Posted by gabby923

    #RemovedByUser# Thanks so much ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Posted by gabby923

    Thank you, these really helped ๐Ÿ™‚

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