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I REALLY NEED SERIOUS HELP PLEZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m in yr 9 and I have a huge crush!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on this boy at school that i have liked for the whole of last yr and this yr. And like all the time I can’t stop thinking about them and stuff. All my friends say that i should ask him out and stuff, and I really want to ask him out but i don’t know how to ask him out like what to like or like what to do!!!!!!!?????????????????? plez help Ohh and in class and stuff he sends hints to me likes me. staring at me, smiling, random convo etc. But please help i don’t know how to ask him out

  • Posted by chloem123

    maybe just ask him if hes seeing anyone or not and then carry it on to asking him out from there?

  • Posted by pugdogmia

    Hiya From past times I have found going with a friend or someone you know because it will feel more natural. Also first maybe ask him and his friends to a group hangout that way if he says no it isn’t such a big deal. Just take your time

  • Posted by Aghost

    Maybe just say that u like him and wanna hang out more but u dont really have to be going out with someone when u are 9 years old, like in yr 3.

  • Posted by jhart7979

    Sorry but the last person who replied misunderstood I’m 13 years old and I’m In year 9 I’m not in 9 years old

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer

    First of all… Calm down! It’s okay, it’s going to be okay! Well, if you want to ask him out, and you think he likes you back, you should do it! You could either go up to him, maybe have a friend go for support, and say something along the lines of ‘Hi (Name), would you like to go out with me?’, or something. Or since you have random conversations with him, during one of them, you could drop the question… I don’t know, it’ll be really scary, but it’s okay! It’ll be worth it! If he says no, at least you won’t feel nervous anymore about asking him, and you’ll know how he feels, And if he says yes… Then yay! Picking a time, activity and location is easy, find something you both have in common. If you don’t know what he likes, you could ask him what hobbies he has, or what he likes to do on the weekend, and that could give you ideas. Good luck! 🙂

  • Posted by stayinanonymous

    Sounds like he’s probably into you.. but there’s nothing you should be worried about! I know you might feel very confused about what to do but you should start by telling yourself you shouldn’t worry about it too much. I would just subtly pull him aside once if you’re talking and just ask him about if he’s seeing someone or just make a joke about how he’s probably got so many girlfriends or something haha (I don’t know thats something i would do but i don’t know if that’s the best advice). But if you’re so into him just ask! You don’t know if something will turn out bad if you havent tried it in the first place!

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