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Please help I don’t know what to do

Hey, so I was texting a guy from my class during the holidays and we would talk about some random stuff. Then he said he liked someone and didn’t know what to say to them and asked me for advice. He said I knew them very well so I thought it was one of my friends. He was saying all this really sweet stuff about this girl. I then found out that the girl was me. I always get really self conscious and anxious in these situations, so I don’t think I handled it well when I said I just wanted to be friends. I apologised if I did anything wrong but he started saying stuff behind my back and it’s really awkward as he is almost all my classes. What do I do I just want things to go back to normal? (Sorry for bad grammar)
Thanks xxx

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  • Posted by Gemmah@Libra

    Hi Brie,

    Things can get a little awks when two people don’t share the same feelings for each other. You don’t want to hurt their feelings, but you also don’t want to lead them on.

    If you don’t have feelings for him, then you did the right thing. You have to follow your heart!

    It sounds like he’s hurt & probably a little embarrassed. However, that doesn’t excuse his behaviour! Talk to him & explain that the things he’s saying are hurting your feelings & that you miss your friendship. Hopefully the two of you can get back to that level.

    Good luck!

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