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I am having trouble with accepting my vagina. It has bumps and is darker in areas and I hate it down there. I have stretch marks too. I am uncomfortable with it. I hate it down there. I despise shaving because every time i do i get another scar and I can’t wax because i know my mom won’t approve…. My mom told me no one has a perfect/pretty vagina but i see all these models and girls at my school who have no scars and no hair it looks perfect…. I don’t know how to accept my vagina. What should I do? I have already tried lightening creams for it but it hasn’t helped. I also am not comfortable with having a “taste” I know they say all this is natural and that they go away but I have a hard time believing it.

  • Posted by StarlightDreamer


    I don’t think you should do anything to it, it’s perfectly okay! Try to accept it, you’re beautiful the way you are. 🙂 I don’t think you should compare yourself to anyone else, especially for things you can’t control. I think it isn’t about changing yourself to look better, but understanding how to feel better about yourself. I think it’s hard to change your mindset, but who knows, maybe over time, you’ll learn to love it! 🙂

  • Posted by Leanna Jayne

    hey girl!
    don’t worry I’m the same! I’ve tried shaving like a billion times and every time I just end up with bumps and cuts and it’s also very itchy! So I’ve just given up! I’ve just decided that natural is the best way to go. And yes it may not be the prettiest one or anything like that but it’s me. This is how it’s supposed to be. And for me atleast, nobody is going to be looking down there for a few years yet and even when they do I’m still not going to change my mind about it. If someone doesn’t like me for what I look like down there then they don’t deserve it.

    Also I feel like shaving down there is kind of wrong. I mean we were given pubic hairs down there for a reason. They are there to protect us from diseases and STI’s blah blah blah. So shaving them off just to look pretty is pretty risky if you ask me. I for sure ain’t exposing myself to nasty stuff like that just so I look good.

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