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Menstrual cycle phases?!

Nov 15, 2022

menstrual cycle phases?

Irregular period

Nov 15, 2022

Hi Gemmah, I got my period when i was 12.5 and I'm now 14. For the past two weeks i've had a really light period. But a week before this started I had a normal period. What do I do?

Moody BBF!

Oct 30, 2018

so my bf and me have been friend sicne year 6 (we are year 8 now) anyway now she being sad one minute grumpy the next and slaping me for no reson at all the next i do not know what to do it dose not help that she is dyslexisc so she finds school work hared when she's ina good mood i help her but i do not know what to do when she mad please help me Embo

Hot and Cold Best Friend? What should I DO?!

Oct 30, 2018

So. There was that girl. We ve been friends - really good friends for a couple of years but then she started to act weird.For instance dhe didnt wanna talk to me she was acting like i was invisible. Then she started to upload things about me on her instagram stories and i asked what happened she explained herself and for a month we were fine. We were besties again but when something really bad happend she decided to brake my hand and from that day we stop talking to eachother. I was fine and i am fine but she is bithering me for example she calls me with an uknown number and she is like ITS A PRANK (like a 5yo) What should I do? I want her to stop bothering me!

I really want this to work out, what should I do?

Oct 26, 2018

I just want to share this with someone..

Oct 26, 2018

Hey I just want someone to tell me how they see what I've been experiencing in their perspective. And maybe an advice on what I should do or how I should continue... basically like a diary that replies I guess Here it goes... It's the start of summer vacation here for me and I only have 1 more week to see this guy I like and do something about my feelings until next school year.. Through out the year he's given me stuff to overthink. I first noticed him because of his beautiful singing voice. He would look at me from across the room, hang out with my friends and initiate study sessions with me. He would say sorry shyly when he thinks he's not doing his best in our group projects and thank me for all my efforts. He's made a few comments about wanting to stay longer or sleeping over at my house just 'cause he didnt have anything else to do. Freeing his schedule just to come hang with me and my guy friends. Giving heart reactions on my social media updates. And I want to believe that he likes me but I'm scared that I only keep seeing this actions because I want to think that he likes me. He was fairly popular with girls (and gays) at school, and he told me it annoyed him. He didn't like it when they confessed. He wanted to be the one to confess to someone he liked. And that made me scared to tell MY feelings. I want to stop liking him tbh. But that wasn't gonna happen until I hear a rejection from him. But at the same time I didn't want to lose the little things we did that probably meant more to me than him. I'm turning 18 in May and I invited him along with a few of my friends. I hope I clear this stuff out before that time. I want to be able to look at him in the eye without looking like I'm always hiding something. He treats me a little bit differently too. To other girls he doesn't seem to care much how he acted but to me it was always awkward at first and we can barely hold eye contact unless no one else was around. He's a nice person too, which is probably why he's nice to me. But that's how I see it... I want to know what other people think about this. I'm not planning on confessing after he opened up to me about the subject anyways... I just want to understand his actions. Thank you!!

I'm in love with my guy friend. Help!

Oct 26, 2018

I really like this boy, what should I do?

Oct 26, 2018

So there’s this guy who I think I like because I wanna talk to him and be around him but when I do I can’t look him in the eye. I don’t wanna ask him out because I’ve never had a bf so idk what I’d do when hanging out with him. And it’d be really awkward if he rejected me because he’s in my orchestra. And he doesn’t talk to me much but when he does we get along really well and have a lot in common. I really need help because I have no idea what to do. I’m also not sure if I like him or not. I also feel kinda jealous when I see other girls talking to him, especially because they talk to him more than I do.

Is our age gap a problem?

Oct 26, 2018

I like my old crush's bestfriend. let's call my crush C .I'm homeschooled and so are they, we have a mutual science class every week (for homeschoolers) and that's the only time I see C. we talk on snapchat a lot, and sometimes I use the filters and he calls the snaps cute. I think he likes me but. there is a problem. I'm 13 and he's 15.... He also lives like 40 minutes away. I'm now good friends with my old crush and sometimes he teases me about C. Thats a sign right? I know he might be too old for me but if i'm 33 and he's 35 its nothing. I think i'm just denying it so it doesn't become a problem. What do I do?

Travelling with my dad and my crush! Help!

Oct 26, 2018

I'm going overseas on a school trip next month and a bunch of my friends, my crush, my dad and some other parents are going. Typically I'm fairly obvious around my crush and show how I feel even though he doesn't feel the same way as far as I know. This worries me because I feel like I'll act rather awkwardly around him due to my dad going on the trip too. So I'm not sure whether to act how I usually do and hope my dad doesn't notice or try to hide how I feel about my crush